Years ago when I was the Health Guide at a website I wrote an article there about goal-setting. Over five years ago I first advanced the idea of giving yourself a lifeline. Instead of a strict impossible-to-achieve-by deadline.
The goal of exercising 5 days a week I would say is unrealistic for most people except athletes and fitness buffs.
The goal of losing 20 or 30 or more pounds also can’t be executed quickly.
How quick is too quick? Expecting change within three weeks is not realistic. 90 days is the Changeology action plan length of time for achieving a goal. And some goals will take years and years to achieve.
The fact is that the cumulative effect of the sub-goals you’re executing week-by-week adds up over time.
You might not notice a difference until 5 months later. Five months later the change might seem to have come out of the blue. And it seems sudden and astounding.
I also know from my own experience that having a fallow period is to be expected.
This fallow period can last a year or two and not just a week or two weeks or a season.
That’s why getting hung up on achieving goals quickly is a mistake.
A fallow period or a plateau is to be expected and planned for.
A setback is the cost of doing business in the real world. It’s why I don’t like to use the word failure. Thinking you’re a failure sets you up to not want to try again when the first option didn’t work out.
When a goal doesn’t go as you planned that’s a sign that you need to adapt your strategy.
Life will tell you what to do if only you stop to listen.
Taking time to slow down is imperative. It’s called practicing mindfulness and I wrote about this in here a year ago. You can use the search bar of this blog to type in the word mindfulness to find this blog entry to read.
The fact is that rush, rush, rushing through your goals, your activities, and your life only serves to backfire.
Italians have the ethic of “piano-piano” which is doing things slowly slowly.
See if what I’ve written makes sense. Giving yourself a lifeline might just be the secret solution to achieving your goals.
Quick is often the antithesis of lasting when it comes to making changes.
Going at your goals rat-a-tat-tat and firing away at them every single minute of the day might also impede success.
Voila–extending to yourself a lifeline.