As a creative person I’ve learned that doubt and confidence go hand-in-hand. You can’t “always” be confident and “never” doubt yourself.
In terms of recovery a person might be afraid to have a relapse or setback. This is only natural.
Again I will refer readers to the book Changeology: 5 Steps to Realizing Your Goals and Resolutions.
While sheltering in place and continuing to write the new novel I’ve seen that doubt can be a constant companion.
The goal in recovery as it is in life as I see it is to persist in the face of doubt.
You might doubt that things will return to normal after the pandemic. Or after you’ve faced any kind of struggle or hardship. Rightly so.
I believe that living through this crisis and surviving will give us the courage to go after our goals. Instead of sitting on the sidelines waiting to be called into the game.
This is my sincere hope that something good can come of having sheltered in place.
I’ve decided that returning to “normal” can’t be my goal once I’m carrying on outside again.
My mantra has always been that it’s just as easy to dream big as it is to settle for less.
Why not believe that recovery will be possible in whatever guise it comes to you as?
Why not go after your goals with gusto?
Why not?